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EP 775

775: Wide Awake at 3 A.M.? What’s Really Disrupting Your Sleep in Midlife with Morgan Adams

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Episode Summary

If you keep waking up at 2:00, 3:00, or 4:00 AM and can’t fall back asleep, your hormones may only be one piece of the puzzle.

In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with sleep expert Morgan Adams to unpack why sleep can suddenly fall apart in midlife and what you can actually do about it.

Morgan explains three major forces affecting women’s sleep: declining estrogen and progesterone, rising anxiety and depression, and the enormous demands of being part of the “sandwich generation,” often juggling a career, children, and aging parents simultaneously.

They dig into one of the biggest complaints among midlife women: middle-of-the-night wake-ups. From blood sugar dysregulation and overheating to overlooked breathing issues, Morgan reveals why repeatedly waking at the same time deserves a closer look.

You’ll also learn what not to do when you wake up, the cognitive trick that may interrupt 3 AM rumination, why your wearable can’t replace a sleep study, and whether sleeping separately from your partner could actually protect your health and your relationship.

Listen now for practical strategies to finally get the deeper, more restorative sleep your body needs.

MORGAN ADAMS

Morgan Adams is a sleep coach who helps women struggling with insomnia and disrupted sleep improve their sleep using evidence-based behavioral strategies.

Her work includes cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) principles and practical approaches to middle-of-the-night wake-ups, rumination, evening routines, and sleep optimization. In the episode, she also offers listeners a guide specifically for 3 AM wake-ups and an opportunity to connect with her about insomnia support.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. Why sleep can suddenly fall apart for women in midlife
  2. What “revenge bedtime procrastination” is and why busy women do it
  3. The surprising reasons you may keep waking up around 3 AM
  4. How blood sugar dysregulation may contribute to nighttime wake-ups
  5. Why overheating may be disrupting your sleep even without night sweats
  6. The overlooked breathing problems that can leave healthy women exhausted
  7. What to do when your brain starts spiraling in the middle of the night
  8. Why a “sleep divorce” might actually become a sleep alliance

QUOTES

“My big thing is mindfulness snacks.”

“Sleeping separately doesn’t mean the marriage has failed.”

“It’s not a template. It’s really an individualized kind of puzzle that you kinda have to put together for yourself.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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769

769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza

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Episode Summary

Is this perimenopause… or is something else going on?

It’s one of the most common questions Dr. Mariza hears from women in their late 30s and early 40s, especially when their periods are still regular and they’ve never experienced a hot flash.

In this solo episode, Dr. Mariza breaks down why early perimenopause can be so difficult to recognize and the less obvious signs that often appear first, including exhaustion, anxiety, irritability, brain fog, sleep changes, worsening PMS, migraines, and changes in stress tolerance.

She shares three important clues for identifying a possible perimenopause pattern: looking for clusters of symptoms, noticing changes from your normal baseline, and tracking how symptoms change throughout your cycle.

But hormones aren’t always the entire story. Dr. Mariza also explains why thyroid dysfunction, low iron, metabolic issues, nutrient deficiencies, sleep problems, and other conditions deserve investigation, even when perimenopause is part of the picture.

Plus, you’ll learn how to track your symptoms and walk into your next healthcare appointment prepared to ask better questions.

🎧 Listen now to connect the dots, understand what your body is telling you, and get clearer on your next steps.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. Why so many women over 35 aren’t sure whether they’re in perimenopause
  2. The early perimenopause symptoms women often mistake for stress or burnout
  3. Why you can be in perimenopause while still having regular periods
  4. The three clues Dr. Mariza uses to recognize a perimenopause pattern
  5. Why tracking changes from your personal baseline matters
  6. How your menstrual cycle can reveal patterns in mood, sleep, migraines, and energy
  7. What else to investigate, including thyroid, iron, metabolic health, and sleep
  8. How to advocate for yourself when your labs look “normal” but you don’t feel like yourself

QUOTES

“Stop looking at the one symptom that proves you’re in perimenopause. Start looking at the collection of clues and patterns that your body is exposing.”

“Perimenopause doesn’t usually show up with a giant flashing sign.”

“Hormones may be a huge part of the picture without being the entire picture.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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Comprehensive Perimenopause Lab Guide

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EP 763 (2)

764: Why Your Nervous System Feels Dysregulated (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right) with Roseann Capanna-Hodge

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Episode Summary

Why is it so hard to relax… even when everything is finally done?

You finish work. The dishes are clean. The kids are asleep. The house is quiet. Yet your shoulders are still tight, your jaw is clenched, and your mind is already scanning for the next thing that needs your attention.

In this insightful conversation, Dr. Mariza sits down with clinical psychologist and nervous system expert Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge to unpack why so many high-performing women feel trapped in survival mode, even when there’s no immediate crisis.

Together, they explore how years of chronic stress, caregiving, perfectionism, trauma, and constantly being “the one who holds everything together” can leave the nervous system stuck in a state of protection. The result? Irritability, anxiety, poor sleep, overwhelm, brain fog, and the feeling that you can never truly switch off.

Dr. Roseann explains the difference between everyday stress and nervous system dysregulation, why being highly productive doesn’t necessarily mean you’re regulated, and how your “stress cup” gradually fills until even small challenges feel overwhelming.

Most importantly, she shares practical, science-backed techniques that help retrain the nervous system to recognize safety again, from diaphragmatic breathing and somatic exercises to micro-moments of regulation throughout the day.

If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t seem to relax, even when life is technically under control, this conversation will help you understand what’s happening inside your body and how to begin creating more calm, resilience, and joy.

Roseann Capanna-Hodge

Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge is a licensed clinical psychologist, mental health educator, author, and expert in nervous system regulation. With more than three decades of clinical experience, she specializes in helping children and adults overcome anxiety, ADHD, trauma, OCD, emotional dysregulation, and chronic stress using evidence-based neuroscience and holistic approaches. She is the author of The Dysregulated Kid and founder of DrRoseann.com.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. Why high-performing women often live in chronic survival mode
  2. The difference between stress and true nervous system dysregulation
  3. How perfectionism, trauma, and caregiving overload your “stress cup”
  4. Why your body struggles to relax, even when life feels under control
  5. Simple nervous system resets you can practice throughout the day
  6. How micro-moments of regulation build long-term resilience
  7. Why awareness alone isn’t enough to create lasting change
  8. The “Love Pause” technique for reducing reactivity and improving relationships

QUOTES

“Just because you’re high-performing doesn’t mean your nervous system is regulated.”

“You can’t heal when you don’t feel safe.”

“We’re leaving our kids emotional wealth, not just financial wealth.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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The Dysregulated Kid by Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge

The Power Struggle Reset Plan

Dr Roseann Website

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EP 759

759: Tired, Wired & Inflamed? The Sleep Fix Most Women Are Missing with Dr. Michael Breus

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Episode Summary

Why do so many women suddenly start waking up at 3:00 a.m. during perimenopause?

In this practical and science-backed conversation, Dr. Mariza sits down with renowned sleep specialist Dr. Michael Breus to unpack why sleep changes so dramatically during perimenopause and menopause, and what women can do to finally get restorative sleep again.

Dr. Breus explains how fluctuating estrogen, progesterone, melatonin, cortisol, body temperature, and blood sugar all collide during midlife, creating the perfect storm for middle-of-the-night awakenings. He shares why waking up at 3:00 a.m. is incredibly common, how modern habits often make it worse, and why women need a layered approach instead of relying on a single solution.

Together, they discuss everything from sleep apnea, hormone replacement therapy, alcohol, caffeine, blood sugar, and evening routines to cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I), breathwork, thermoregulation, and supplementation.

Most importantly, Dr. Breus offers practical strategies women can begin implementing immediately to improve sleep quality, reduce nighttime wakeups, and build a foundation for better health through every stage of menopause.

If you’ve been lying awake at 3:00 a.m. wondering what’s happening to your body, this episode is packed with answers and actionable solutions.

DR. MICHAEL BREUS

Dr. Michael Breus is a board-certified clinical psychologist, clinical sleep specialist, bestselling author, and founder of The Sleep Doctor. For more than two decades, he has helped millions of people improve their sleep through science-backed strategies focused on circadian rhythms, sleep disorders, behavioral sleep medicine, and overall wellness. He is the author of multiple bestselling books, including Sleep, Drink, Breathe.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. Why women commonly wake up around 3:00 a.m. during perimenopause
  2. How estrogen, progesterone, cortisol, and blood sugar affect sleep
  3. The biggest mistakes women make before bedtime
  4. Why sleep apnea is often overlooked in midlife women
  5. How CBT-I can help retrain the brain for better sleep
  6. The role of caffeine, alcohol, fiber, and evening nutrition
  7. Why cooling the body improves sleep quality
  8. Practical habits that create a healthier nighttime routine

QUOTES

“Everything we do, we do better with a good night’s sleep.”

“Sleep is the currency of attention.”

“You need runway to land the plane.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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Get the “Sleep Drink Breathe: Simple Daily Habits for Profound Long-Term Health” book by Dr. Michael Breus. 

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Get the Home Sleep Study – The at-home sleep study measures key sleep metrics

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EP 745 (2)

745: Why You’re Wired, Tired, and Awake at 3AM (And What to Do About It) with Dr. Scott Sherr

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Episode Summary

Why are so many women waking up exhausted… but unable to shut their brain off?”

In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with Scott Sherr to unpack the hidden nervous system and biochemical shifts driving sleep struggles, anxiety, exhaustion, and feeling “wired and tired” in midlife.

Together, they explore why women in perimenopause often lose stress resilience, why the brain gets stuck in overdrive at night, and how neurotransmitters like GABA, serotonin, adenosine, and cortisol shape sleep quality, recovery, and mood.

They also dive into the powerful connection between mitochondrial health, nervous system regulation, energy production, and why building more “reserve” may be the missing key to feeling calm, focused, and resilient again.

If you’ve been struggling with middle-of-the-night wakeups, burnout, anxiety, or feeling like your brain never truly powers down, this episode will help connect the dots—and offer practical solutions that actually move the needle.

Dr. Scott Sherr

Dr. Scott Sherr is a physician, health optimization expert, and Chief Operating Officer of Troscriptions. His work focuses on nervous system regulation, mitochondrial health, hyperbaric medicine, sleep optimization, and performance medicine. He is passionate about helping people improve resilience, energy, recovery, and cognitive performance through science-backed strategies and targeted support.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. Why so many women feel “wired and tired” in perimenopause
  2. The real reason behind 2–3 AM wakeups and racing thoughts
  3. How GABA, cortisol, serotonin, and adenosine impact sleep and stress
  4. Why nervous system regulation is essential for resilience and recovery
  5. The connection between mitochondrial health, energy, and brain function
  6. How chronic stress and sympathetic overload affect hormones and mood
  7. Practical tools to support sleep, focus, calm, and nervous system balance

QUOTES

“Sleep will make or break you the next day—especially in this season of life.”

“To increase your performance is having more reserve.”

“You’re not meant to live in a state of disruption, exhaustion, and feeling wired and tired all the time.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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