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775: Wide Awake at 3 A.M.? What’s Really Disrupting Your Sleep in Midlife with Morgan Adams

September 22, 2026 in Podcast, Women’s Health 0

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Episode Summary

If you keep waking up at 2:00, 3:00, or 4:00 AM and can’t fall back asleep, your hormones may only be one piece of the puzzle.

In this episode, Dr. Mariza sits down with sleep expert Morgan Adams to unpack why sleep can suddenly fall apart in midlife and what you can actually do about it.

Morgan explains three major forces affecting women’s sleep: declining estrogen and progesterone, rising anxiety and depression, and the enormous demands of being part of the “sandwich generation,” often juggling a career, children, and aging parents simultaneously.

They dig into one of the biggest complaints among midlife women: middle-of-the-night wake-ups. From blood sugar dysregulation and overheating to overlooked breathing issues, Morgan reveals why repeatedly waking at the same time deserves a closer look.

You’ll also learn what not to do when you wake up, the cognitive trick that may interrupt 3 AM rumination, why your wearable can’t replace a sleep study, and whether sleeping separately from your partner could actually protect your health and your relationship.

Listen now for practical strategies to finally get the deeper, more restorative sleep your body needs.

MORGAN ADAMS

Morgan Adams is a sleep coach who helps women struggling with insomnia and disrupted sleep improve their sleep using evidence-based behavioral strategies.

Her work includes cognitive behavioral therapy for insomnia (CBT-I) principles and practical approaches to middle-of-the-night wake-ups, rumination, evening routines, and sleep optimization. In the episode, she also offers listeners a guide specifically for 3 AM wake-ups and an opportunity to connect with her about insomnia support.

IN THIS EPISODE

Why sleep can suddenly fall apart for women in midlife
What “revenge bedtime procrastination” is and why busy women do it
The surprising reasons you may keep waking up around 3 AM
How blood sugar dysregulation may contribute to nighttime wake-ups
Why overheating may be disrupting your sleep even without night sweats
The overlooked breathing problems that can leave healthy women exhausted
What to do when your brain starts spiraling in the middle of the night
Why a “sleep divorce” might actually become a sleep alliance

QUOTES

“My big thing is mindfulness snacks.”

“Sleeping separately doesn’t mean the marriage has failed.”

“It’s not a template. It’s really an individualized kind of puzzle that you kinda have to put together for yourself.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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769: Is It Perimenopause or Something Else? How to Finally Connect the Dots with Dr. Mariza

September 1, 2026 in Podcast, Women’s Health 0

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Episode Summary

Is this perimenopause… or is something else going on?

It’s one of the most common questions Dr. Mariza hears from women in their late 30s and early 40s, especially when their periods are still regular and they’ve never experienced a hot flash.

In this solo episode, Dr. Mariza breaks down why early perimenopause can be so difficult to recognize and the less obvious signs that often appear first, including exhaustion, anxiety, irritability, brain fog, sleep changes, worsening PMS, migraines, and changes in stress tolerance.

She shares three important clues for identifying a possible perimenopause pattern: looking for clusters of symptoms, noticing changes from your normal baseline, and tracking how symptoms change throughout your cycle.

But hormones aren’t always the entire story. Dr. Mariza also explains why thyroid dysfunction, low iron, metabolic issues, nutrient deficiencies, sleep problems, and other conditions deserve investigation, even when perimenopause is part of the picture.

Plus, you’ll learn how to track your symptoms and walk into your next healthcare appointment prepared to ask better questions.

🎧 Listen now to connect the dots, understand what your body is telling you, and get clearer on your next steps.

IN THIS EPISODE

Why so many women over 35 aren’t sure whether they’re in perimenopause
The early perimenopause symptoms women often mistake for stress or burnout
Why you can be in perimenopause while still having regular periods
The three clues Dr. Mariza uses to recognize a perimenopause pattern
Why tracking changes from your personal baseline matters
How your menstrual cycle can reveal patterns in mood, sleep, migraines, and energy
What else to investigate, including thyroid, iron, metabolic health, and sleep
How to advocate for yourself when your labs look “normal” but you don’t feel like yourself

QUOTES

“Stop looking at the one symptom that proves you’re in perimenopause. Start looking at the collection of clues and patterns that your body is exposing.”

“Perimenopause doesn’t usually show up with a giant flashing sign.”

“Hormones may be a huge part of the picture without being the entire picture.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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Comprehensive Perimenopause Lab Guide

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764: Why Your Nervous System Feels Dysregulated (Even When You’re Doing Everything Right) with Roseann Capanna-Hodge

August 4, 2026 in Podcast, Women’s Health 0

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Episode Summary

Why is it so hard to relax… even when everything is finally done?

You finish work. The dishes are clean. The kids are asleep. The house is quiet. Yet your shoulders are still tight, your jaw is clenched, and your mind is already scanning for the next thing that needs your attention.

In this insightful conversation, Dr. Mariza sits down with clinical psychologist and nervous system expert Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge to unpack why so many high-performing women feel trapped in survival mode, even when there’s no immediate crisis.

Together, they explore how years of chronic stress, caregiving, perfectionism, trauma, and constantly being “the one who holds everything together” can leave the nervous system stuck in a state of protection. The result? Irritability, anxiety, poor sleep, overwhelm, brain fog, and the feeling that you can never truly switch off.

Dr. Roseann explains the difference between everyday stress and nervous system dysregulation, why being highly productive doesn’t necessarily mean you’re regulated, and how your “stress cup” gradually fills until even small challenges feel overwhelming.

Most importantly, she shares practical, science-backed techniques that help retrain the nervous system to recognize safety again, from diaphragmatic breathing and somatic exercises to micro-moments of regulation throughout the day.

If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t seem to relax, even when life is technically under control, this conversation will help you understand what’s happening inside your body and how to begin creating more calm, resilience, and joy.

Roseann Capanna-Hodge

Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge is a licensed clinical psychologist, mental health educator, author, and expert in nervous system regulation. With more than three decades of clinical experience, she specializes in helping children and adults overcome anxiety, ADHD, trauma, OCD, emotional dysregulation, and chronic stress using evidence-based neuroscience and holistic approaches. She is the author of The Dysregulated Kid and founder of DrRoseann.com.

IN THIS EPISODE

Why high-performing women often live in chronic survival mode
The difference between stress and true nervous system dysregulation
How perfectionism, trauma, and caregiving overload your “stress cup”
Why your body struggles to relax, even when life feels under control
Simple nervous system resets you can practice throughout the day
How micro-moments of regulation build long-term resilience
Why awareness alone isn’t enough to create lasting change
The “Love Pause” technique for reducing reactivity and improving relationships

QUOTES

“Just because you’re high-performing doesn’t mean your nervous system is regulated.”

“You can’t heal when you don’t feel safe.”

“We’re leaving our kids emotional wealth, not just financial wealth.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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The Dysregulated Kid by Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge

The Power Struggle Reset Plan

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760: The Mindset Shift That Helps You Stop Feeling Stuck with Dr. Rachel Goldman

July 7, 2026 in Podcast, Women’s Health 0

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Episode Summary

Why do so many women reach midlife and suddenly feel like everything is harder than it used to be?

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Mariza sits down with nationally recognized clinical psychologist, behavioral change expert, and author Dr. Rachel Goldman to explore why so many women feel overwhelmed, disconnected from themselves, and stuck during major life transitions.

Dr. Rachel explains how stress, changing responsibilities, shifting identities, motherhood, career demands, and body changes can create a sense of losing yourself—and why the answer isn’t pushing harder, but learning how to respond differently.

Together, they discuss the mindset shifts that help women navigate change with more self-compassion, flexibility, and resilience. They also explore the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and how simple tools from cognitive behavioral therapy can help break patterns that keep us stuck.

Dr. Rachel also shares why self-care doesn’t have to mean adding another overwhelming task to your list. Instead, small intentional moments like movement, breathing, time outside, connection, and creating a reset can completely shift how you show up in your life.

If you’ve been wondering whether you’ll ever feel like yourself again, this episode is a reminder that change doesn’t mean you’ve lost who you are—it may be an invitation to step into your next chapter with more strength and confidence.

DR. RACHEL GOLDMAN

is a nationally recognized clinical psychologist, behavioral change expert, speaker, and author of When Life Happens: The Mindset Shift You Need to Manage Stress, Build Confidence, and Break Free. She helps people manage stress, improve mindset, navigate life transitions, and build confidence through practical, evidence-based tools rooted in psychology and behavioral change.

IN THIS EPISODE

Why so many women feel disconnected from themselves in midlife
How mindset impacts stress, emotions, confidence, and behavior
The importance of self-compassion during seasons of change
Why routines and small habits help create stability during stressful times
How to stop all-or-nothing thinking and create realistic solutions
The connection between body image, aging, and identity shifts
Why resilience comes from building tools before life gets difficult
How to create a personalized stress management toolbox

QUOTES

“Life can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to feel so challenging.”

“We have to create the time.”

“Feeling stuck isn’t who you are. It’s a signal.”

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758: Why Your Body Can’t Heal Until It Feels Safe: The Nervous System Shift That Changes Everything with Dr. Dave Rabin

June 25, 2026 in Podcast, Women’s Health 0

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What if the reason you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed, exhausted, disconnected, or stuck isn’t because you’re broken—but because your nervous system no longer feels safe?

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Mariza sits down with psychiatrist, neuroscientist, inventor, and author Dr. Dave Rabin to explore the science of safety, nervous system regulation, emotional healing, resilience, and what it truly means to be alive.

Drawing from decades of work treating patients with PTSD, anxiety, addiction, and chronic stress, Dr. Rabin shares why many traditional mental health approaches often fall short and why healing begins by helping the body relearn safety.

Together, they discuss how modern life, chronic overstimulation, smartphones, loneliness, and constant stress have created what Dr. Rabin calls a “habitat crisis” that is overwhelming our nervous systems and contributing to rising rates of anxiety, depression, burnout, and chronic disease.

Dr. Rabin also explains why feeling must come before thinking, how many of our limiting beliefs become subconscious programs during childhood, and how simple practices can help rewrite those stories in real time.

The conversation dives into heart rate variability (HRV), vagus nerve health, emotional processing, play, connection, and the remarkable science behind Apollo Neuro—a wearable technology designed to help the body feel safer, sleep better, and recover more effectively from stress.

If you’ve ever felt trapped in survival mode, disconnected from joy, or exhausted from constantly pushing through, this episode offers a hopeful roadmap back to safety, resilience, and healing.

Dr. Dave Rabin

Dr. Dave Rabin is a board-certified psychiatrist, neuroscientist, inventor, and mental health innovator. He is the co-founder of Apollo Neuro, a wearable technology designed to improve stress resilience, sleep, focus, and recovery through gentle vibrations that activate the body’s safety response system. He is also the author of A Simple Guide to Being Alive, which explores the neuroscience of safety, healing, emotional well-being, and human flourishing.

IN THIS EPISODE

Why nervous system dysregulation is driving so many modern health challenges
How chronic stress, smartphones, and overstimulation contribute to a “habitat crisis”
Why feeling emotions is essential for healing and resilience
How subconscious childhood programming shapes adult behavior and beliefs
The connection between vagus nerve function, HRV, and long-term health
Why sleep quality may be one of the most powerful tools for nervous system recovery
The science behind Apollo Neuro and how it supports safety and resilience
How play, connection, and joy help create lasting healing