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EP 760

760: The Mindset Shift That Helps You Stop Feeling Stuck with Dr. Rachel Goldman

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Episode Summary

Why do so many women reach midlife and suddenly feel like everything is harder than it used to be?

In this powerful conversation, Dr. Mariza sits down with nationally recognized clinical psychologist, behavioral change expert, and author Dr. Rachel Goldman to explore why so many women feel overwhelmed, disconnected from themselves, and stuck during major life transitions.

Dr. Rachel explains how stress, changing responsibilities, shifting identities, motherhood, career demands, and body changes can create a sense of losing yourself—and why the answer isn’t pushing harder, but learning how to respond differently.

Together, they discuss the mindset shifts that help women navigate change with more self-compassion, flexibility, and resilience. They also explore the connection between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, and how simple tools from cognitive behavioral therapy can help break patterns that keep us stuck.

Dr. Rachel also shares why self-care doesn’t have to mean adding another overwhelming task to your list. Instead, small intentional moments like movement, breathing, time outside, connection, and creating a reset can completely shift how you show up in your life.

If you’ve been wondering whether you’ll ever feel like yourself again, this episode is a reminder that change doesn’t mean you’ve lost who you are—it may be an invitation to step into your next chapter with more strength and confidence.

DR. RACHEL GOLDMAN

is a nationally recognized clinical psychologist, behavioral change expert, speaker, and author of When Life Happens: The Mindset Shift You Need to Manage Stress, Build Confidence, and Break Free. She helps people manage stress, improve mindset, navigate life transitions, and build confidence through practical, evidence-based tools rooted in psychology and behavioral change.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. Why so many women feel disconnected from themselves in midlife
  2. How mindset impacts stress, emotions, confidence, and behavior
  3. The importance of self-compassion during seasons of change
  4. Why routines and small habits help create stability during stressful times
  5. How to stop all-or-nothing thinking and create realistic solutions
  6. The connection between body image, aging, and identity shifts
  7. Why resilience comes from building tools before life gets difficult
  8. How to create a personalized stress management toolbox

QUOTES

“Life can be challenging, but it doesn’t have to feel so challenging.”

“We have to create the time.”

“Feeling stuck isn’t who you are. It’s a signal.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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Grab the “When Life Happens” book by Dr. Rachel Goldman

Dr. Rachel Goldman Website

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Dr. Rachel Goldman Facebook

Dr. Rachel Goldman Youtube

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722: Why Women Feel Unsafe Right Now: Trauma, Hormones & Protecting the Next Generation with Dr. Aimie Apigian

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Episode Summary

What if the breaking point so many of us are feeling right now is actually the beginning of profound healing and purpose? 

In this episode, returning guest and trauma expert Dr. Aimie Apigian helps you understand why so many conversations feel triggering—and how unresolved trauma, not just current events, may be at the root. 

We explore the difference between resolved and unresolved trauma, and why being activated is a sign your body is asking for deeper safety and support. 

We’re talking about shifting pain into meaningful action—whether that’s healing your body, setting boundaries, or standing up for change in a grounded way. 

Dr. Aimie breaks down her sequence of healing and explains the science behind how trauma is stored and how it can truly be resolved. 

Tune in here to go from overwhelmed to empowered!

Aimie Apigian, MD 

Dr. Aimie Apigian is a double-board-certified physician in Preventive and Addiction Medicine with double Master’s degrees in biochemistry and public health. She’s the leading medical expert on how trauma becomes our biology and what to do once it creates a chronic health condition. She hosts a podcast, a YouTube channel, and online Summits, working with experts in the health and trauma space. She also leads groups through her programs to address stored trauma in the body, and teaches practitioners to do the same in her Biology of Trauma online Training.

IN THIS EPISODE

1. Discovering new layers of unresolved trauma 

2. Creating safe spaces to ask the hard questions

3. How to make your children feel safe to share their feelings  

4. The biology behind why we can feel re-triggered

5. Creating safety & mentally supporting yourself through hard times

6. Resetting your nervous system to feel safe in your body 

7. How to support & show up for each other through uncertain times

8. Dr. Aimie’s guide on healing stored trauma & more resources for you 

QUOTES

“Don’t do anything alone. This is where a tribe, a group of people, can make a tremendous difference in the world.”

“Healing is not staying small to stay safe. It’s finding that safety, but then layering in the support on a biology level, on a somatic level, on a mind level. Those are all the three levels that allow our mind and body to have the energy to actually process.”

“When we’ve had this past trauma, our brain likes to put things into those kinds of boxes. so being able to step back and learn over time that while it’s important to speak up, it’s also important to choose who I share those things with because it’s not meant for everybody.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

Order my latest book: The Perimenopause Revolution

Dr. Aimie’s book: The Biology of Trauma

Dr. Aimie’s Socials: 

Dr. Aimie’s Website

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LinkedIn 

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660: Why You Keep Self-Sabotaging—and How to Break the Emotional Eating Pattern for Good with Amber Romaniuk 

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Episode Summary

Ever find yourself standing in the pantry late at night, mindlessly eating your favorite salty snack straight from the bag? Been there! 👋 

But we all know that’s not the best thing we could be doing for our metabolic health. Today, I’m joined by Amber Romaniuk, an Emotional Eating, Digestive, and Hormone Expert, for a raw and empowering conversation on why so many women—especially in midlife—feel stuck in cycles of emotional eating just as hormones, energy, and motivation start to shift. 

We explore why this struggle isn’t about willpower, but a deeper call for healing, and how your body’s cravings are often tied to hidden hormone chaos during perimenopause and menopause. 

Amber shares her own powerful journey of breaking free from binge eating while healing her gut and hormones, and offers practical tools to help you build trust with your body again.

If you’re ready to step out of guilt and into compassion and freedom with food and your body, tune in to this episode!

Amber Romaniuk

Amber Romaniuk is an emotional eating, digestive, and hormone expert with 12 years of experience helping women build body confidence, intuition, and optimal health. She’s the host of The No Sugarcoating Podcast, with 2+ million downloads across 500 episodes in 88 countries. Amber supports others by drawing from her own journey of overcoming emotional eating, losing and gaining over 1,000 pounds, and investing five years in healing her hormones and digestion. Her Body Freedom™ method guides women to achieve transformative healing, confidence, and vibrant health for fulfilling lives.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. The impact of emotional eating on hormonal health 
  2. Breaking old patterns instilled in us about eating and body image
  3. Why consistency is better than an all-or-nothing mindset 
  4. Blood sugar balancing for optimal metabolism 
  5. Non-negotiable habits and recognizing negative eating triggers 
  6. Emotional eating, late-night snacking, and other food addictions 
  7. Beneficial ways of “rewarding” ourselves that feel GOOD
  8. Mindful eating and other healthy eating habits at meal time 

QUOTES

“Working on blood sugar balance– they start to have a more stable mood, more stable energy. Their cravings start to drop. They have less urge to emotionally eat or binge.”

“There’s gonna be many levels of dealing with that trigger, including probably hormone support and reprioritizing yourself on your schedule, which is going to take time setting boundaries.”

“Be patient, ladies. It’s not about willpower, it’s not about trying harder. It’s about knowing this kind of vulnerable time and going, ‘Okay, maybe I wanna build this time a little differently. If I know I’m vulnerable, what would be a habit or a self-care practice just to help me through this time?’”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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Amber’s Website

Amber’s Podcast: The No Sugar Coating Podcast

Amber’s YouTube Channel  

Amber on Instagram

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#378: How to Trust Yourself More Even if You Haven’t in the Past and How to Navigate Your Emotions Especially When You Are Triggered with Dr. Patty Ann Tublin

Most of us want to experience our emotions in a safe and healthy way without feeling triggered or reactive. However, in a lot of daily situations, this is much easier said than done. Becoming emotionally intelligent, especially during difficult conversations or situations can be scary. But, tapping into your own truth and learning how to show up authentically can open you up to a new way of living that you never thought possible.

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Even before the pandemic, feeling burned out had become the norm. Feeling physically and emotionally exhausted can have some severe health consequences, which is why it is so frustrating when we feel like we are making progress, only to be hit with those same fatigue and burnout symptoms. The first step to addressing these symptoms is to understand your unique stress response pattern and learn specific strategies that can make a huge impact on your stress type.

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