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685: End Emotional Outsourcing: Break Free from Codependency, Perfectionism & People-Pleasing with Beatriz Albina

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Episode Summary

What do you really want the second half of your life to look like? 

Being a doormat for others, then resenting it? Saying yes, when you really mean no? Doing more tasks or more work, taking responsibility for everything, and feeling overwhelmed in your life? 

This can be how so many of us in midlife feel, but I’m here to tell you there IS another way. 

In this episode, I sit down with expert Beatriz Albina to talk about a challenge so many women face but can’t always name—patterns of overgiving, perfectionism, and the ultimate people-pleasing trap. 

Beatriz introduces the concept of emotional outsourcing and how it quietly drives these behaviors, leaving us feeling stuck and drained. 

Together, we discuss how reframing your mindset is a powerful tool for reclaiming your emotional well-being. Plus, Beatriz gives us a sneak peek into her brand-new book, End Emotional Outsourcing—a guide to finding freedom, balance, and true self-connection.

Tune in here to reignite joy in your life, and find the inner peace you’ve been craving for years! 

Beatriz Albina

Beatriz (Béa) Albina, NP, MPH, SEP (she/her) is a UCSF-trained Family Nurse Practitioner, Somatic Experiencing Practitioner, Master Certified Somatic Life Coach, and author of the book “End Emotional Outsourcing: a Guide to Overcoming Codependent, Perfectionist and People Pleasing Habits“. She’s dedicated to helping people socialized as women reconnect with their bodies, regulate their nervous systems, and rewire their minds to break free from codependency, perfectionism, and people-pleasing. Béa hosts the Feminist Wellness Podcast, and holds a Master’s degree in Public Health from Boston University School of Public Health and a BA in Latin American Studies from Oberlin College.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. What is emotional outsourcing, and how can it impact women? 
  2. Getting back to the basics for our emotional needs 
  3. How our emotions lie in our nervous system– not just our minds  
  4. Calming techniques you can do in 5 seconds, anytime, anywhere
  5. Detaching from labels like ‘co-dependent’ and ‘perfectionist’ 
  6. How to stay regulated while also setting boundaries 
  7. Why reframing your mindset is so important for healing 
  8. All about Beatriz’s book: End Emotional Outsourcing 

QUOTES


“This is what happens when we get activated or triggered in our nervous system. When we start being mean to ourselves, when we ignore our impulses, when we project, when we take things personally, when we get offended, all these things– our nervous system is in a different time and place.” 

“That’s the self-worth work. Saying, ‘I trust myself, I believe in myself, and so I know that this isn’t a problem.’ And that’s that. Not allowing any other thoughts to enter your beautiful mind space, your world, your body. It’s really vital work.” 

“What our children and our partners, and our friends and our communities and ourselves want and need from us the most, most, most, is presence. Intunement and presence.” 

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676: The 6-Minute Morning Routine That Can Transform Your Entire Life with Hal Elrod

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Episode Summary

If your mornings often feel frazzled—leaving you stressed out and already behind before the day even begins—this episode will be a game-changer for you.

I’m joined by Hal Elrod, bestselling author of The Miracle Morning, who shares how simple shifts in your routine can completely transform your days, your mindset, and even your health

We talk about the updated edition of his book, which now includes The Miracle Evening, full of tips on how your bedtime routine can help set you up for morning success. Hal also opens up about his traumatic past– from recovering from a debilitating car accident to overcoming cancer, and the mindset strategies he used to carry him through it all. 

Plus, he’ll help you learn tools to combat overwhelm and let go of stress quickly when it creeps up. 

Ready to end the morning chaos and start leading your life with more peace and clarity? Tune in here, and begin your own miracle mornings!

Hal Elrod

Hal Elrod has lived a life that would break most people, but he’s somehow managed to turn his adversities into perspectives and practices that have helped millions of people around the world. Today, he’s a dedicated husband and father, international keynote speaker, and best-selling author of 12 books, including The Miracle Morning, which has sold over 3 million copies. His mission is to help you overcome what’s holding you back from experiencing the life you truly want—beginning with how you start each day.

IN THIS EPISODE

  1. How the right morning routine can help change your life 
  2. About Hal’s book, The Miracle Morning, and his updated edition 
  3. How a nighttime routine sets you up for morning success 
  4. Living in alignment with your core values 
  5. Hal’s battle with cancer and how he overcame his symptoms 
  6. Hal’s secret: The 5-minute rule to change your perspective 

QUOTES

“60% of women in midlife struggle with sleep issues, and it’s [due to] hormones for sure.” 

“In the new edition of The Miracle Morning, there’s a chapter called The Miracle Evening, which is all about what you do starting 3 to 4 hours before bed.” 

“You can be at peace with the things you can’t change. Enjoy every moment of this one life that you’ve been blessed to live, AKA, the miracle life.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

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Watch The Miracle Morning movie FREE here 

Miracle Morning Website 

Hal Elrod’s Website 

Hal’s Instagram

Hals’ Facebook

Pre-order my new book: The Perimenopause Revolution HERE

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658: 7 Books That Will Transform Your Life in 2025

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EPISODE SUMMARY

Books are powerful tools for self-growth and wellness. 

In my personal experience, books have been truly life-changing. The right book at the right time can be exactly what you need to get back on track and start to feel like the clearest, most powerful version of YOU. 

In this episode, I’m sharing with you some of my all-time favorite books across all genres. From authors like Mel Robbins to Gabrielle Bernstein, we’re covering fiction, non-fiction, and even my newest favorite– romantic fantasy (don’t knock it til you try it, ladies… trust me!). 

Books can be an escape, a tool for self-love and confidence-building, and a way to reconnect with yourself and with others. So don’t miss this episode to uncover my top transformative books to add to your library!

IN THIS EPISODE

  • How books can be transformative for yourself and your wellness  
  • 7 of my favorite life-changing books for different seasons of life
  • How authors’ personal lives influence their written stories 
  • A hint at when my future Book Club will be announced!
  • What to expect in my new book: The Perimenopause Revolution 

QUOTES

“The power of the right book at the right time… It doesn’t just give you information, it gives you transformation. And as I’m about to release my 9th book, The Perimenopause Revolution, I’m reminded why books matter so much.”

“Too many women have forgotten how wild and powerful they truly are. This book is a beautiful reminder and a challenge to become yourself again, to come home to yourself.”

“This is about thriving through the second half of our lives because when women feel alive, aligned, and energized, we don’t just exist. We transform our families, our communities. We transform the world.”

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